Heather D. in Lawton, OK

Mothering A Mother LLC

    Practice overview

    I am a veteran wife and a mom of 2. I have 5 fur-babies, 2 reptiles, a bird, and a 10gal fish tank. I am a birth and sibling support doula, breastfeeding consultant, womb light/reiki practitioner, and Simply Earth essential oil wholesaler. I start my journey to birth doula after I had did some research on becoming a breastfeeding consultant. I want to help mothers to have the help and education they deserve on having the pregnancy, labor, and delivery of their choosing. I want to help mothers have a successful breastfeeding journey. With my knowledge and techniques I have been able to help mother and partner take the stress out of being life into this world.

    Years experience


    Families supported


    Birth Rate


    Care philosophy

    Your body, Your choice. I help mom and partner have the support and education they deserve. I help advocate their wishes for them.


    • Birth doula support
    • In-home lactation visits
    • Virtual lactation visits
    • Babywearing
    • General childbirth education classes
    • Lactation support

    Specialties and Experience

    • High-risk pregnancy
    • Induced and high medical technology labor and birth
    • LGBTQ
    • People of color
    • Plus size
    • Postpartum mood disorders
    • Previous birth trauma and/or birth injury
    • Single parents
    • Teen parents
    • Waterbirth

    Care settings

    • Birthing center
    • Home
    • Hospital


    • English


    • BD, WLP, RP, CPT, CNA


    Pricing packages

    Birth Doula
    $ 600
    An initial consult (FREE), ​3 prenatal visits, ​Birth Plan Set Up, Labor and Delivery Support & Education, Breastfeeding Support & Education, Pain Relief Support throughout ​ Pregnancy and during Labor, ​Birth and Peanut Ball + Rebozo available for use, 30 min Reflexology session, 3 Postpartum visits. Package cost for local clients is $600 and wf birth center client is $650.
    Sliding scale pricing available
    Contact for additional pricing options

    Virtual Birth Doula
    $ 500
    An initial consult (FREE) 3 prenatal visits Birth Plan set up Labor and Delivery Support & Education Breastfeeding Support & Education Pain Relief Support & Education throughout Pregnancy and during Labor ​3 Postpartum visits
    Sliding scale pricing available
    Contact for additional pricing options

    Sibling Support Doula
    $ 25 /hr
    I love to see siblings at the birth Support for child(ren) physically and emotionally Child friendly childbirth education Child friendly breastfeeding education Mom will be able to focus on her needs with her support system knowing her child(ren) are well taking care of. Free initial consult 4 visits with family throughout pregnancy. *This doesn't including any other packages and can not be combined*

    $ 30 /hr
    Aid in relaxation De-Stress Optimize physical and emotional health Reduce anxiety Improve Sleep

    Womb Light Session
    $ 80 /hr
    A multi modality practice specifically focused on supporting women in any perinatal stage. It utilizes life force energy, subconscious language, and more. It encourages active participation from you to create a truly empowering experience. Benefits: enhance fertility relieve pain reduce anxiety increase connection elevate intuition release blockages balance emotions regulate hormones shift your state feel empowered find peace of mind rest easily
    Contact for additional pricing options


    Areas served

    • Lawton, Ok

    • Gianna
      January 15, 2021 at 9:53 am | Client review

      I went through my whole pregnancy thinking that I could get through labor and delivery on my own, but after being pushed by my mom to hire a doula, I finally gave in and hired Heather week before my due date. I could’t have made a better decision!
      I realize now how absolutely unprepared I was. At our first meeting Heather gave me a sample birth plan and helped tailor it to my needs, encouraging me to take it back home and go over it with my husband. There were so many delivery options and procedures that I wasn’t even aware of, and I know I would have been totally overwhelmed if I didn’t walk into the hospital with a plan of action.
      I labored at home for several hours, and Heather came by my house to help with pain management.
      At the hospital she was an invaluable voice of reason and made sure I knew exactly what was happening at any given moment. During delivery I was very disrespected by my doctor and Heather did a wonderful job both advocating for me and making sure I had the correct information should I choose to pursue legal charges.
      My breastfeeding journey was off to a rough start at first, and Heather was an amazing resource and a huge encouragement during our postpartum appointments. It was especially helpful to have her stop by and check on my daughter’s latch.
      She is a wealth of information, and I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a doula!”

    • Sierra
      January 22, 2021 at 9:08 am | Client review

      My first pregnancy I did without a doula and my midwife was hardly involved. It was pretty traumatic and I don’t have the best memories from that pregnancy. But with my second, I decided to get a doula, and Heather agreed to be mine. She was in constant communication with me through my pregnancy. She checked up on me and even though I was already a mother and went through labor before, she helped educate me and gave me so much information I didn’t know about the first time around. She helped make my pregnancy and delivery so memorable. I delivered in a birthing center in Wichita Falls on Christmas Day 2019. My husband was overseas and my mother in law was with my daughter but Heather stayed by my side the entire delivery. I was worried how it would be for me to deliver without my husband but through the 2 hours in labor and after the birth Heather never stopped giving me the support and attention I needed. I felt such a great connection to her the first time we met, and my oldest daughter absolutely adores her! I never thought I’d be able to have a birthing experience like this one. I had a lot of doubts about doing it without medication this time around and family stress had a big negative impact for me. But Heather believed in me. She never pressured me, instead, she encouraged me to believe in myself and follow the plan I believed I was strong enough to do. And I did. I couldn’t possibly thank her enough for the experience she has given me.

    • Wendy
      March 30, 2021 at 9:36 pm | Peer review

      Heather is ready to work hard for families, she has the knowledge and enthusiasm to do well.

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